A male friend of mine said this today and I had to share it here. I feel that what he said hits the nail on the head for what I want. I think it shows that not every divorcee is anti marriage. A lot of us are looking for it again and miss many parts of it.
"I want to be married again, to someone I can spend forever with and build a family.
Not to make me happy but to enhance my happiness!
Not because I'm lonely but because I desire to be intimately significant to a woman.
besides God said: "it is not good that a man should be alone I will make for him an help mate"
That tells me that my God has a woman out there who will meet my specific needs, one who wont be perfect but she will be dynamically perfect for me..."
Yes! YES! YES!!!
I am the biggest advocate for searching for a helpmate. I have faith that God will bring him and all of us on this blog our future spouse / helpmate!
Follow three 30 year old women on their quest for love... again
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Thursday, December 20, 2012
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Introduction of A
Hello, my name is "A". I am a 30 year old single woman who lives in Atlanta. I am a mom, dog owner, divorcee, and tired of dating. Let me rephrase that... I am tired of looking for Mr Right! But this is suppose to be an introduction so let me get back on topic.
I am looking for love... again. I got married in the fall of 2007 and separated in the summer of 2008. I know what you're thinking... nope, it did not take me long to realize it was not the right fit for me! By right fit I mean my ex not marriage. I look forward to being married again. Since ending my marriage I have had two long term relationships. One lasting a year and the other lasting 2 years. I have been single for... (looks at calendar) about 9 months. Geez it feels like a lot longer than that.
I am trying to "just date and have fun" like people keep telling me to do, but I am a serial monogamous. I am fine with casual date until I begin liking a man, then I want us to focus on seeing where our connection can go. I do not easily like a guy, so if I say I like one throw some confetti. I believe in learning from my experiences and mistakes, especially in relationships. I am realist and far from a hopeless romantic.
I am excited about sharing my journey to love and marriage (speaking it into existence) with you!
~ A
I am looking for love... again. I got married in the fall of 2007 and separated in the summer of 2008. I know what you're thinking... nope, it did not take me long to realize it was not the right fit for me! By right fit I mean my ex not marriage. I look forward to being married again. Since ending my marriage I have had two long term relationships. One lasting a year and the other lasting 2 years. I have been single for... (looks at calendar) about 9 months. Geez it feels like a lot longer than that.
I am trying to "just date and have fun" like people keep telling me to do, but I am a serial monogamous. I am fine with casual date until I begin liking a man, then I want us to focus on seeing where our connection can go. I do not easily like a guy, so if I say I like one throw some confetti. I believe in learning from my experiences and mistakes, especially in relationships. I am realist and far from a hopeless romantic.
I am excited about sharing my journey to love and marriage (speaking it into existence) with you!
~ A
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