Dude! Why are you so touchy! You don't even know me! Ok... I did not say that but I sure have thought it on several dates! I am not a touchy person. Like in a relationship or to family and friends yes. Well to family and friends it is still limited. So when I am getting to know a guy and he is very touchy I do not like it.
I look at my body as a special place. Not every one, hell not many people at all get to touch it much less "enjoy" it. I do not even dance with guys I do not know when I'm out at a club or lounge. Yes... it is that serious.
Recently I went on a few dates with an over toucher. It was strange because I did not verbally say your little touches are annoying, but I made it obviously it was not normal. He would touch me or try to hold my hand and I would stop talking and look at the point of contact. Do not call me a B! I'm not touchy!!!!!! After several of these incidents he did not stop. One time holding my hand for several minutes on a second and third date. Finally I had the conversation with him. I told him I am not touchy and he is not receptive to clues at all. I am more of the hug hi and bye type, until I 'know' the person better.
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