I remember having a conversation with my ex-boyfriend about physical attraction. I was never necessarily physically attracted to him, but we had great chemistry and I liked her personality. Later in our relationship the lack of a physical attraction to him became an issue. He felt it caused our sex life to dwindle. I still blame it on his actions and spitefulness. Either way it got me thinking about what amount each... physical attraction, chemistry, personality, and other straits... go into my overall attraction to a guy.
In the last week or so I noticed that it has a lot to do with it. I am physically attracted to athletic or slender guys. I love taller men but as long as they are at least 6 feet I can deal. I also like a cute or very attractive guy. Hey... I'm pretty... I can want the same in my mate! Call me shallow but men approaching me obviously want the same.
I notice my interactions and lack of interest in men who are slender / athletic happens very quickly. I don't know why the chunky or ability to become chunky is a huge turnoff. Might as well tell me you don't want kids! But that is a completely different post.
Anyway... this week I discovered I have a physical type. Guess I am not as open minded as I thought I was!
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